Announcing the seventh UK & Ireland Professional Training in Somatic Sex Education with Kian de la Cour & Katie Sarra presented by the Sea School of Embodiment in collaboration with the Institute of Somatic Sexology


with no obligation and to arrange a personal call with the facilitators.

Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (CSB - the first year level) and Certified Somatic Sex Educators (CSSE - the second year level) are professionals supporting individuals, couples and groups to learn to direct their own erotic development, learn about their bodies, sex and sexuality, or work through sexual issues or concerns.

The course involves a variety of instructive modalities, including breath work, touch, empowering embodied consent, erotic bodywork, scar tissue remediation, and Orgasmic Yoga coaching.

This is a training in embodiment. Whilst this involves learning and developing skills in a range of modalities, the main focus of the training is on learning how to facilitate client agency with their decision-making about how they are touched. As such, sessions are co-created with an educational focus.

Somatic Sex Education™ (this describes both certificates) supports new neural pathways firing in the service of exploring new ways of being - and wiring them with practice. Embodiment practices are routes to support coming back 'online' with the receptive parts of the nervous system which supports agency and choice in decision-making with our bodies. Learning how to feel more of ourselves supports more of us to come online with creating safety and kindness with ourselves and others.

For many people, the only context for intimate touch and discussion has been within a relationship or partner engagement. This is understandable - and there are other contexts; one of which is education and curiosity. In Somatic Sex Education™ sessions, practitioners intend to work outside of attraction i.e. partner engagement is set to one side in the service of learning.

One of the somatic realms that Somatic Sex Educators introduce to our students is a state of arousal that is free of fantasy, unfinished emotional business, religious dogma, cultural caveats and habitual sexual behaviours. In this meditative state, an individual becomes aware of the body as a source of wisdom and freedom. One of the ways to access this fecund state is by actively receiving erotic bodywork. Helping others access and make use of a variety of erotic states is foundational to the education we offer.

Somatic Sex Educators believe that sexual health and erotic education are basic human rights. The Certificate in Sexological Bodywork™ & Certificate in Somatic Sex Education™ professional training is for people of all sexual orientations, gender identities, characteristics, or expressions.

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How is Somatic Sex Education different to Tantra?
Tantra also offers potential routes into being more receptive and present with our bodies with practices being ritualised to increase sensory receptivity. The main difference is that in Tantra or neo-tantra as popularly taught in the West, boundaries and roles between practitioner and client have a wide scope of variability as there are so many schools and interpretations of this vast Eastern philosophy. Tantra trainings and individual sessions often involve immersive role play or sensual experiences rather than co-created educational agreements to explore feeling more of ourselves.

Somatic Sex Educators, in contrast, operate with a client-led & client-centred approach and with a clear Code of Ethics. Somatic Sex Education™ has an educational focus, meaning that practitioners work with learning objectives that the clients bring. This means it is not a set of techniques, rather, the techniques are secondary to the educational contract. For more on this see this clip from Dr. Betty Martin on Why the choosing is more important than the doing.


Working with Trauma
Trauma is prevalent in our society and we will discuss possible nervous system responses to it & how to be with them. Whilst this is a training in embodiment with understandings of how the nervous system responds to trauma and routes that support the nervous system to relax out of disconnection; specialist training is recommended to work effectively with people who are living with the effects of Trauma. Somatic Sex Educators often work closely with trauma specialists and psychotherapists supporting the integration between body and mind. Read our trauma statement here.


UK and Ireland Professional Training

This 7 month program trains and certifies somatic sex educators. Certified Sexological Bodyworkers and Certified Somatic Sex Educators are certified sexologists who focus on somatic sex education. Somatic Sex Educators have the scope of practice to include touch in sessions, however, the term “bodywork” in this context refers to the fact that we focus on embodied (somatic) awareness; it does not mean bodywork in the sense of massage. Massage may or may not feature in sessions and massage experience is not a requirement to train. Sessions are client-led and are somatically focussed even if they include little or no touch.

The training emphasises session structure, embodied skills, professional practice, and group facilitation.

This UK training both includes and expands upon the Australian and original California-approved course of studies. Read the Code of Ethics for Somatic Sex Educators here

Certification & Insurance

Upon completion of all requirements, students will be awarded the Certificate in Sexological Bodywork (CSB) or, in the second year, the Certificate of Somatic Sexual Education (CSSE) by the Sea School of Embodiment.

Graduates from this professional training can become members of The Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB) and Somatic Sex Educators’ Association of Australasia (SSEAA) and apply for membership of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS).

This course is recognised in the UK by The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists as offering a training of sufficient depth for practitioners to be eligible for insurance for their work. See for more details.

Course structure

The course is structured over 7 months June 2020 to February 2021 (dates to be confirmed) and includes:

  • An online home-study course directs practice sessions, course readings and video viewing for 20 hours or more each week for the 9 weeks of home study.

  • Completing the home study Module 1 is a requirement for attending the fourteen-day in-person Module 2.

  • 14 days in person for Module 2 in Glastonbury, SW England, including 2 days of Wheel of Consent practice.

  • Conducting an ethical practice: ethics, consent and boundaries.

  • Somatic Sex Coaching: help others to overcome shame and erotic sensory-motor amnesia, allowing both personal and communal erotic embodiment.

  • Conscious Breathwork: A foundational tool of Somatic Sex Education™.

  • Orgasmic Yoga coaching: Based on Authentic Movement, the motto of masturbation coaching is: “Change the way you masturbate, change your life”.

  • Mindful genital mapping and massage

  • Somatic Sex Education to promote neuroplasticity

  • Muscular, skeletal, and genital anatomy

  • Polyvagal theory and the triune autonomic nervous system

  • Jakk Panksepp's emotional command systems

  • Scar tissue remediation

  • Leading successful groups with Deej Juventin's Engage, Study, Activate teaching model

  • Successful business planning and practice

  • Supervised practicum

Provisional Course Dates for 2020: June 22, 2020 - February 01, 2021.

Module 1: Online group study June 22 – September 06

Module 2: Embodiment Intensive September 17 - September 30 in Glastonbury, SW England

Module 3: Supervised practice of 25 sessions October 05 – February 01


Course Fees:

Super Early Bird: £3,597 When paid in full by September 05, 2019
Early Bird: £3,897 When paid in full by January 23, 2020
Full Price: £4,197

All course fees must be paid in full by May 23, 2020

A non-refundable deposit of £500 reserves your place    

The course fee includes: Tuition for the three modules; online access to the home study workbook, video demonstrations, and student forums; tea, coffee and snacks for Module 2, the Embodiment Intensive; supervision for Module 3 – plus a one-year membership to The New School of Erotic Touch and The Orgasmic Yoga Institute, the major online resources for Somatic Sex Educators.

The course fee does not include: Food or accommodation for Module 2, the Embodiment Intensive (location TBC); transport to the intensive, text books, or telephone charges for conference calls.

After enrolment procedures (see below) have been completed a non-refundable deposit of £500 secures your place in this training. 

All course fees must be paid in full before before starting the course.

Refund Policy:

There is a non-refundable deposit of £500 which secures your place in the training.
If you cancel before you have accessed the online materials the first £500 remains non-refundable.
After accessing the online training component of the Somatic Sex Education™ training there is no refund.

Enrolment procedure

This is designed to answer any questions you might have and for you to explore this being the right training for you at the right time.

1). Complete the enrolment form here.

2). Attend an online enrolment information meeting

3). Have an individual interview with the facilitators

4). Sign the agreement form